When my friend Leslie proposed the topic for the first round robin for a select group of bloggers, I couldn’t help but smile. It was a slam dunk: “Is having a pet worth it?”
Where do I begin?
Asking someone who has had dogs since she was six years old and who is known to many people as Corgi-obsessed if having a pet is worth it may be like asking anyone if they need air to breathe. You may think I’m exaggerating. I’m not. Take one look at my Instagram feed, my Tumblr, or previous posts about the passing of two of my dogs (here and here), and it will be easy to see that my answer is an emphatic and absolute YES.
As my dad said the other day, “It’s why they say ‘dog’ is ‘God’ spelled backwards.” I actually hadn’t heard that phrase before, but I do believe it’s true. And I’m not religious. Despite what the research says, I firmly believe dogs have and express emotions similar to humans (I’ve seen my dogs laugh, cry, and grumble). I do believe they are our best friends, perhaps even more faithful and dedicated than humans. And I do believe that dogs serve a unique purpose in providing us with joy, showing us the depths of love, and serving us with loyalty and unconditional devotion. The number of times I have laughed while watching my dogs play, or cried to see them in pain, or hugged them fiercely when I needed comfort, are too many to count. Dogs are great listeners, and they keep us active. They don’t let us get too into a funk or lose track of time because they have to be fed and walked and put to bed. They are constant reminders of the simple pleasures in life, like laying in the cool grass on a summer day, lounging on our backs and dreaming, and making time for play. They are sensitive to pain, and eager to please — just as we are. At the end of the day, they are happy to see their loved ones, and grateful for a warm bed — also like us.
Studies have shown again and again that having a dog boost our mental, emotional, and physical health. And although it may seem like getting a new dog soon after one has passed would be too difficult, people commonly find themselves looking for a new four-legged family member pretty quickly (we have, more than once). I know I don’t just speak for myself when I say that a beloved dog is not only a companion, but truly becomes a part of the family forever.
As I have never owned a pet other than a dog (a total of five so far), I can’t speak to the benefits of having a cat (I really don’t like them anyway) or a fish or rabbit. But I do know plenty of people who have also enjoyed owning these other animals. My personal opinion, of course, is that dogs reign supreme.
In case you still aren’t convinced, read 13 Reasons Why A Dog Will Make Your Life So Much Better, which is validated by adorable gifs of dogs, including my dream combination of Tom Hanks and a Corgi (Corgi count in this article: 3).
This post is dedicated in honor of Rocky, Harrison, and Casey, and to my current companions, McGee and Abbey.
To read the rest of the responses to this month’s round robin question, visit the following blogs (and come back in a month for the next topic):
Leslie Farnsworth: http://lesliefarnsworth.com
Joan Johnson: http://onefishtaco.blogspot.com/
William Pora: http://williampora.com
Rebecca Harvey: http://bayoucitypostcards.blogspot.com/
James McPherson: http://jalmcpherson.com/
Jon Lundell: http://therealmil.blogspot.com/
6 thoughts on “The ROI of having a pet (Hint: it’s huge)”
I do love dogs, cat post notwithstanding. They are sweet and I had several growing up. But more specifically, I’m in favor of having something to care for, be it a cat, dog or naked mole rat. Human beings need to care for something; and pets are easier to take care of than people (there’s less resistance and back talk). Ironically, animals put us in touch with our humanity.
And they are so darn cute.
Aww…I love cats, but I do know that they aren’t many people’s cup of tea. I used have dogs…just easier to have a cat, especially as now there are mice about trying to get inside from the cold winter. 🙂
I totally get that some people find cats easier to handle. And I do know lots of folks that say their cat acts like a dog. I may disagree, but hey, what works for some doesn’t work for all. What counts is loving and being loved!
True…what is good for the goose is not good for the gander 🙂 Love is all 🙂