When someone asks you how your day was, or your week, or if they haven’t talked to you in awhile, how is life, do you say “the usual”? I say it quite a bit, but when I really think about what has been going on, it’s not always just the usual. If I break downContinue reading “The usual”
Tag Archives: life
The decision is mine
To write what I want, where I want, how I want. To decide how I feel, and to react accordingly. To have certain people in my life, or not. To believe what I want to believe. To take charge of my life. …and no one can tell me otherwise.
The little things
Isn’t amazing how after a bad fight, a bad day or just feeling bad, you indulge in some of your favorite things and you feel 100 times better? Yesterday morning, the day started off poorly. But I decided to get past it. I went for a walk outside in the sun. I called my dadContinue reading “The little things”
Questions
Left unasked, finding out the answers too late can cause problems. But sometimes, asking them hurts more. Asking the right questions of people you care about can lead to discussing elephants in the room that need to be cleared out. But then there’s the questions that may be wrong, or if not wrong, they makeContinue reading “Questions”
Helping others helps yourself
I’ve been realizing lately how much this is true. Lately it’s been all about admitting things and then doing something about it, instead of just continuing to sit there and whine or cry or be frustrated. Whether it’s that you can’t lose the weight, you can’t get past some emotional baggage, or you aren’t doingContinue reading “Helping others helps yourself”